.Yet what Astrid does not recognize but is actually a fact that both Ortega and O'Hara-- that has two sons-- may attest to: The truth that your connection along with your parents changes as well as evolves as you both get older, and with any luck right. "Your world facilities around [your kids] when they're children [as well as] it's a lot work however wonderful," O'Hara points out. "Later, you actually miss out on that, since after that you can not receive them to perform just about anything you prefer all of them to perform, since they start cultivating their own thoughts, their very own opinions." As well as at some point, you wind up in the area O'Hara, whose sons reside in their 20s and 30s, finds herself right now, able to profit from her children. "They're just such trendy young fellas," she claims. "I am actually certainly not their friend, but I really love having chats along with all of them and getting to know exactly how they deal with lifestyle.".